From Psychology Today: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/am-i-right/201404/love-and-hate
I teach both graduate and undergraduate courses in applied ethics (business and media), and I often wonder whether the endeavor is worthwhile. Then I receive an email like this one and I am ready to teach another semester. (Excuse her grammar; the student recently arrived from Turkey). Dear professor, I do not know how much …
What you see is shaped by what you think others see
Pleasure is good but selfish pleasure takes you away from people and therefore away from your own happiness.
From my Psychology Today blog: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/am-i-right/201404/there-is-ugly-underside-empathy